Gratitude is a virtue often taken for granted, especially in an environment where everything is expected to function seamlessly. At Jesuit Memorial College, many students are quick to criticize the school 
management whenever there are temporary inconveniences like power outages or water shortages. In those moments, it seems as if people completely forget how much effort goes into making our lives as comfortable as possible.
Of course, we pay higher-than-average school fees, and with that comes the expectation of top-tier services. But does that mean we should act oblivious to the realities of the society we live in? Nigeria, as we know, is a country with deep systemic challenges – power supply is inconsistent, infrastructure is often underdeveloped, and opportunities are not evenly distributed. Luckily yet, within our school, we are given a structured environment where learning and personal growth thrive. Instead of focusing only on the few times things don’t go as planned, why not acknowledge all the times they do?
Take a moment to think about the people who work tirelessly to make our school experience better. The cleaners arrive before most of us wake up, ensuring that our surroundings are spotless. The kitchen staff put in a lot of effort preparing meals so we are well-fed. The drivers wake up at odd hours to transport them, ensuring they are here to serve us. The teachers and administrators dedicate their time and energy to shaping our futures, even when we fail to appreciate their sacrifices.
Recently, I had the opportunity to visit a regular secondary school in Nigeria while registering for UTME. When I got there, the facilities were in terrible condition, yet students were making do with what they had. I saw people twice my age. Struggling to register for the same test under the hot sun meanwhile, we had a school bus, staff chaperones, and even meals provided for us, turning what should have been a stressful experience into a smooth and comfortable one. These are privileges we barely recognize because we’ve grown so accustomed to them.
Despite our complaints, we cannot deny that Jesuit Memorial College has given us countless invaluable experiences. From leadership lessons to strong friendships, from academic excellence to personal growth, we have been shaped into individuals who can stand tall in any setting. Our gratitude should not just be in words but in actions. The best way to express appreciation is to make the most of what we have been given. It would be a tragedy if, after all the investment in us, we leave here only to become mediocre in society.
We must represent this institution with pride, not just in name but in character. We have a light to show the world, and it is only through our actions – our integrity, our pursuit of excellence, our kindness – that we can truly express our gratitude to God, our parents, and everyone who has played a role in our journey. Let us not be people who only see what is wrong; let us be people who also acknowledge what is right. In a world full of complaints, gratitude is a rare but powerful thing. Let’s choose to be grateful.
Jedidiah Ayooluwa ADELOYE
Class of 2025